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INJUSTICE!
When services that we pay to protect us,
COMPLETELY FAIL!
Harassment.
Harassers Are Typically Narcissistic Or Sociopathic, And Clearly Disengaged From Any Morality.
They Certainly Display Zero Empathy, And Quite Often Believe That What They're Doing Is Their Right.
An Harassers Main Aim Is To Exploit And Manipulate Their Victims In Order To Gain Control Over Them.
Amoral:
Harassment is now a growing trend in the UK.
Unfortunately, its not something that's receiving any remedial attention by authorities.
The question would be, 'why do people choose to intimidate others'?
Psychological scientists have been studying the dynamics of this for decades.
In every study the harasser always attempts to shift the blame onto their victims.
Like any sociopath they even start to believe their own lies!
Most of this is based on the perpetrators paranoia, whereas the harasser wrongly assumes that the victim thinks they're too good for them.
This kind of conflict is often fuelled by someone using drugs, or/and alcohol.
Others can be from disagreements, which quite often contain a simple solution using communication!
Sadly most of these ridiculous situations are often based on suppressed feelings.
Feelings of which could be jealousy, hatred, and even sometimes suppressed desire.
The latter is very rare, however, when someone lacks either confidence or understanding, then anger can take its place.
See Shana Grice.
Shana was just a child, and the police completely disrespected her, possibly based on her young age.
This was like a green flag for her psychotically jealous ex-boyfriend, and eventually he cut her throat.
That description is brutal, but not as brutal as the lack of protection that she endured?
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Victims of Harassment.
Consequences:
One thing that always rings true in these conflicts...
You soon find out who your true friends are.
A soldier will always tell you, that you can forgive anyone anything, except treachery!
Its not joining in or taking part, its being there after, to show support.
Being a witness is more paramount to show the truth, because without it, the harasser wins.
Its why David Askew and others just like him, died!
An harassers best ammunition is always their lies, and convincing others that its not their fault.
However, there will always be a final price for them to pay! (You reap what you sow)?
Obsessive:
For one party, an ongoing harassment will always end badly.
But in some circumstances, it's not always the victim that suffers.
For time in memorial, history will continue to reflect when a victim takes their revenge, with dire consequences.
Therefore recognising when an harasser is trying to gain power over you is always vital.
Never relax and assume that they will one day go away, because they simply won't.
Their vendetta, although completely pointless, is their own mindless obsession.
Simply keep complaining, don't let up until they stop, or they get stopped, completely!
Keep as much detail written down as you possibly can.
It may eventually cost the harasser something that's very dear to them, but that's their risk, and not the victims.
Defence is the right of every living being, and taking the battle back to an enemy has always been a justifiable response.
NEVER LISTEN TO THEM!
Ignore Them:
One common denominator is the fact that you will get played by them!
They will on occasions apologise, but then simply continue to harass you later, and that is a fact!
They feel this harassment gives them power over you, and believe that it will eventually weaken you.
So never trust the harasser, because they are either unwell, or they're simply not compos mentis.
When someones mind is affected by negative thoughts, its often difficult, and sometimes even impossible to reach them.
Quite often the victim will be someone alone ... A lone male, or female, are potential targets to an harasser.
It simply shows the harassers lack of intelligence.
If your harasser uses drugs, then its pointless even communicating with them.
Suzanne Dow was such a victim, and sadly she committed suicide.
Councils and Police are little to no help whatsoever, and in such circumstances, they have almost zero interest in getting involved.
Their constrictions are created by the Politically Correct brigade, just in-case they offend the offenders.
Which is why these things end so badly.
Most of these departments are a waste of public money, with records of people continually harassed for over a decade.
They may as well automate the offices, with an answering machine, that tells you that you're being ignored!
Replace the staff with a couple of paper clips and a pencil sharpener, although the sharpeners an overkill.
Suzanne should have been supported by Police and Councils, yet she was left alone, in total torment.
Of course there are some victims that turn the tables completely around on their harassers, and this is the biggest worry?
And even when it happens, the media are almost always kept away from the real truth.
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Harasser Killed by Victim.
Isolation:
These harassers generally bend the truth for their own advantages.
Acting as innocent and attempting to push the blame towards the victim.
If you are male and your harasser is female, you are much worse off, because 'PC' raises its ugly head.
You will need to keep very detailed records.
CCTV is an ideal option, and possibly avoiding the harassers at all costs is considered wiser.
Quite often an harasser will spread rumours and lies to discredit you.
Ignore this, because if people refuse to ask for the other side of a story, then they're not worth worrying about.
It can sometimes leave you completely isolated, but again, don't lose track of whom you are.
The secret of life and survival is never to allow people to change you, and just keep moving with the times.
Moving with the times simply means don't get stuck in the past, you cannot bring anything back, but you can change the future.
Although modern day is very different, you are still the same strong human being that has survived to become the strong person that you are.
If people can't accept you for whom you are, then that's their loss, and one day they will also experience a very similar dilemma.
It would be very doubtful that they will ever have the same strength or wisdom to survive it!
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Stop protecting Harassers message to all.
Insincerity:
As in many cases that are portrayed on this site, very little to nothing, is ever done to protect people.
How many times have you heard pointless insincere apologies from authorities?
Its almost a scripted response that means nothing to anyone but themselves.
You get to feel that they have just forgiven themselves, because they really have no emotional ties with the victims.
Families are destroyed, hearts are broken, and quite often families break apart.
All this simply because some fool failed to abide by having mutual respect for others?
I very much admire Bibaa and Nicoles mother for refusing the police apology offered.
She was right, it was too late, and they do not deserve to be forgiven for ignoring the families cries for help that fatal night.
In the last ten years it has been regularly reported that many investigative bodies such as those that independently investigate the police, are also broken.
Liaison officers for councils and even environmental services have been proven to take sides in disputes, leaving a victim to suffer.
The government needs to reverse some of its ridiculous policies that clearly fail progress.
Beware Online:
Harassment on-line is at an all time high.
If you've ever considered stopping your children from using their on-line chat, then now is the time to do it.
On-line bullying and harassment goes unspoken by children, and they can end up becoming depressed and afraid.
If they're very young, then really take note of their moods, before and after they go on-line.
If their mood has changed, then do something about it, before it becomes too late!
You might not want to believe this, but people exist that actually enjoy harming others.
These people often suffer sleep deprivation, because unknown to themselves their own minds are in complete turmoil.
They would actually celebrate your suicide, so never give in to them, in fact never give in to any negative feelings, they will pass!
Every possible trick in the book is now practised by on-line crooks, and its the same for harassers, and bullies.
Remember that on-line is also the domain for sexual offenders, so keep a constant eye on your children.
Don't let them become a victim, because it can all happen so very quickly.
Teach them what to look out for, and to never trust anyone with any personal information whatsoever, especially pictures!
Never put children's photos on-line, we know that you love them, and you like to show them off, but never to strangers?
On-line media simply want to make money, and they are not your friends.
Google snapshot.
Bring all Harassers to justice.
Spammers:
Even email is often used by harassers to either harm you, or extort money from you.
If you get an email offering something that sounds too good to be true, delete it immediately!
They try things like your password has been challenged, click this link to repair it, simply DELETE the email!
No-one, especially banks, hospitals, or on-line sales will ever ask you to change or send any password information.
Most passwords are encrypted, and stored in a database, but some sites don't, so check the integrity of the website.
If the site begins with http, and not https, then its not secure. Check Here
If you're worried, then simply delete the email first, then go to the site in question, and use their official log-in, and then just check to see if anythings changed.
Failing that, phone the company using their previously known phone number and not the one in an email.
You are your own first line of defence in all on-line attacks.
Quite often these lamers will obtain your user, or first name, this is often due to bad on-line sellers.
Yes these self same self people that sold you a phony item, is generally a hacker by night!
Keep safe.
Communication First:
The UK made one good decision by leaving the EU.
But now they need to repair the state of the public society.
After extensive research into several forums, and many publicly available cases, the following results were discovered.
Racism, Sexism, Classism, Hetero-sexism, Islamophobia, and Homophobia, is on the rise.
Worse still is the fact that it not only exists, but it has become part of a growing unwritten policy within all the public services.
When dealing with authorities including governmental systems its clear that many of the so-called professionals take sides in disputes.
They base their own opinions on all the above, including aesthetics, and that's no surprise at all.
For too many years education has failed to introduce all these prejudices as a lesson in life.
Instead they still tend to hide behind Political Correctness (PC), which clearly fails us all.
The time has come to look at the bigger picture. COMMUNICATION!
FIGHT INJUSTICE!
